lilghostyguy

Holy crap I have not been in here in a while.

lilghostyguy

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I’ve never been more confused in my entire life. I’m having a hard time figuring out my gender, and I looked up “what does it mean to be a girl” and literally when I tell you that the responses are not only extremely confusing but I have never been more unsure of something. Gender is just a giant social construct, I literally have no fucking reason why it even exists, and I’m not just saying that because I’m queer. I’m being serious, I literally have no idea why gender is a thing, and why people have to make such a big deal about it, I don’t even understand why labels are a thing, well I mean i kind of do, labels help people feel like they fit in, because that lost feeling that you feel when you don’t fit in anywhere is probably one of the worse feeling, but I also feel like people shouldn’t stress about labels so much, your aloud to have a level and our aloud to not, but still this is extremely confusing 

lilghostyguy

I don’t think words have hurt so bad before, I literally want to vomit, my mom was lecturing me and it was reasonable, but my step dad(who has literally told me that if I were transgender he would still accept me) told me about how I’m a girl and that it so yeah having a great day 

pitbullrose

Damn. I’m sorry. My messages are always open if you need to vent
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