lit_leigha1

I KNOW YOU GET DEJA VU

lit_leigha1

Have you ever been through too much and you cant handle it then because your also the 'therapist friend' all of your ' friends ' are dumping their shít on you and that's making it worse? No? Oh lol I'm just weird ig

peepeepoopoolenaa

@lit_leigha1 honey do you wanna talk about this my dm’s are always open and i’m always here for you 
            it might take a lot of work and time but you need afk out yourself first in the swing of things you looking out for you is more important than any other person 
            don’t let how people in your friend group treat you define how you treat yourself
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lit_leigha1

Thanks I honestly just I'm a people pleaser and I'm also the mom/therapist of the group but in my group taking on that role also means them pouring the anger out on me ( which is not fun ) and it also means that while I'm helping everyone else I'm not helping myself. But that's the reason why I do it. I try to avoid my issues ( even tho theres no avoiding them )
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peepeepoopoolenaa

i have a lot on me already but i have a type of ocd where i obsess over peoples emotions and putting their emotions before my own so them coming to me somehow calms me down 
            but when it becomes way to much i do 1 of 3 things  
            1. I’m either honest about it and say i can’t handle it right now if they’re there for the right reasons they understand 
            2. i call my therapist and ask her what to do about it cause trina stays coming in clutch 
            3. try your best to help them through whatever’s going on but don’t let it get to you ( i know how hard it is not too ) 
            either way your own sanity and mental health is more important than you helping others 
            i’m the mom and the therapist friend i understand what you’re going through 
            it’s ok to let out your emotions on this too if you need to scream then scream if you need to cry then cry just let it out baby it’ll make you feel better
            and i’m always here for you to talk too if you need to dump the dump or just express your emotions to someone who doesn’t really know you i’m always here ok ily honey 
            remember it’s ok to say no to people trying to dumb their emotions on you
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