ok so my friend went through something earlier and wasnt feeling like staying so i wrote a paragraph for him which i want to share with all of you because i know some of you are also struggling and this might help
i dont know if you've done anything, i really hope you havent, but if you have then its understandable. anyone can take one look at your profile and see that youve suffered so much. you've been through a lot and its only understandable that you want to end it. so if you havent done anything yet, then i admire you. you have a lot of strength that me and a lot of other people dont have. and it'll get better. maybe not today, tomorrow, or even for a few years. one day you'll be able to leave your family for good and cut all other toxic people from your life, and be able to live the way you want to and fun. i dont know when this day will come, but it will. we just have to have patience. and it may be hard, but think about how relieving it be to look back at this and think "i made it through that, they tried tear me down but i said no and made it through that" but of course if you have done something, then you most likely wont see this. of course i still admire you, you suffered through that for so long. maybe next time you'll have a loving family and amzing friends and you'll be able to express freely and be accepted by everyone, and you'll be happy. really, thats all i want for you, to be happy. so even if that means leaving me and everyone else here, if you'll be happy and loved by everyone, then so be it. do what you have to do, but know that i love you, and will be with you all the way, and ill always be your brother.
so that was what i sent him. umm i understand this might be a bit personal so bro, if you want me to delete this or something then i will. but if not then i hope this helps someone, and makes them feel better
ngl i actually cried a bit while writing this, especially the looking back part
