I'm mostly writing this because I've found that telling people has helped me process it. But I can announce that I'm part of the bi to ace pipeline as some people like to call it. Basically it's not uncommon for someone on the aspec to at first think they're bi. Basically we know something is different about us, and we try to convince ourselves we do have crushes or whatever, and sometimes we confuse strong platonic feelings and aesthetic attraction for sexual or romantic attraction. Which I did for years. After lots of personal pondering I've concluded that I have never had romantic attraction for a girl. For years I considered myself to be biromantic and asexual. But I'm now realizing and have worked through amatonormativity enough to see what was happening. And I can't imagine myself in a relationship with a woman. So yeah, I'm demiromantic heteroromantic asexual. I'm still trying to get used to this, it was less than a week ago that I took biromantic off my profile description and have started telling people. It's still weird, I considered myself bi for 7 years. But every time I tell someone I accept it more and more. So thanks for the support! If you have questions, feel free to ask. Only thing I will say is that I'm still queer, asexuals and aromantics are queer.
