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Just let people identify however they want because at the end of the day it's THEIR label, not your's. If someone wants to use more specific labels, then that's okay. If someone wants to use more simple/well-known labels, then that's okay too. If someone just does not want to use labels at all, then that's okay. At the end of the day, they're probably happy with their identity

technobvbble

I’m not going to say “pronouns don’t equal gender” because in some cases it does, but sometimes it doesn’t. A woman (or a female aligned non binary person) can use he/him, they/them or neopronouns if that is what they feel comfortable with.
          Other than that, I don’t know about non binary lesbians. I guess they could use the term trixic.

BattleAxeBiSquad

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@technobvbble WAIT NO BUT YOU'RE RIGHT ABOUT THE BRAIN DEAD KIDS-
            
            Because.. A. This shit needs to be known about on here, vuz the amount of people who say they aren't biphobic and then say something biphobic is ungodly and B. Let's see how many sane kids actually exist on here 
            
            
            Not a lot since most of them spammed a word I have as a big discomfort...
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technobvbble

@BattleAxeBiSquad (by discourse I don’t mean anything related to what we were discussing)
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technobvbble

@BattleAxeBiSquad not sure, just what that person is comfortable with
            also I’ve got a question, why do you bring this discourse to Wattpad? this app is full of brain dead kids /nm /gen
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Errorantivoid

Ok lady, I’m sorry I’m doing this cause you just got here but I’m going to explain this one thing using myself. I’m not coming at you and I want you to know I want this to sound as calm as possible.
          So, when I was NB I didn’t know the term for a NB that like female only, so I said “ I am a non-binary lesbian/ they/themlesbian” because I didn’t know the proper term. I mean yes they can’t be proper lesbians but they can still use the term. If a gay Male says “ I’m such a lesbian” it doesn’t mean he is a girl or he is straight, it means he is using the term for manly women to  describe himself. Although this might be uncommon or can still happen, Luke let’s say a newly founded trans male ( a female to male) gay person said “ I’m such a lesbian” it could be an old habit or because they didn’t have anything to trick their mind into thinking they don’t have a female body. If an NB does it it’s probably because they don’t know the proper term or they feel really homey with the term. You can dm or pm me anything you want as long as I am fully authorized to reply as I have had a person pm me hurtful words only to then block me so I couldn’t reply.

Errorantivoid

@longswordlesbian 
            I know there are proper terms, nor everyone knows them though. And I know being homey with the term doesn’t mean I fall under the category of a lesbian but it feels nice to be able to express yourself without feeling weird
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longswordlesbian

@Errorantivoid There ARE terms for NBs attracted to women, such as Trixic and Feminamoric. Being "homey" with a label doesn’t make you that label. Thanks for being respectful though.
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