so... I'm at my uncle's and he just sat down and gave me a talk about how I need to be "interactive" and "not reserved" and that I should always smile and talk to people nicely so that I make a lasting impression. what if I don't want to??? I'm not comfortable talking to people all the time and when I want to, I do. I'm not anti social but I love my space why is that wrong? why is wanting to be on my own wrong ughhh