my real life friend invited my other real life friend to a discord group chat, and now i'm scared to have my name as 'evan' on discord, because the friend sees me as female only and may not like me using the name.
even though the name can technically be unisex.
and it's only a name and it doesn't harm anyone but the friend may still have an issue or judge me or see me differently.
i wanna use evan as my nickname as well as other names.