luvmin_kook13
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"Hate" is a strong word.
One should think thrice before declaring that they "hate" something. Disliking is a different thing. But hating can't be justified with just "preference"... At least that's what I believe.
Using such negative words have always made me feel bad later on. If you dislike something, it's totally fine. But openly targeting something you don't like is not okay, I think. Others might have a strong connection to the thing you "hate." Think about what they will feel.
As a mere human, it's one of the most basic thing to do: Respect others' opinion and choices. If you feel like something is wrong about their choices, you should focus on WHY they actually like it. Maybe they have a different perspective than you. No one's perfect. You can't practically think of yourself as the most knowledgeable person, right? You should rather confront THEM with open mind.
We should always be respectful and humble. Learn to love. Love is a strong word too, but then, do you realize what it does to your heart? It heals.
These days, I'm learning to love the people who were bad to me, who made me feel terrible. And by loving, I do not mean that I'll literally go in front of them and say, "Yo, you hurt me in past but I love you now"
Haha. By loving, I'm acknowledging their positive side. Yes, they were bad to me. But they must have a good side too. Maybe they were suffering themselves. Of course, I will not risk my mental health by being in front of them, but I shall not hold any grudge.
And this is one of the most difficult things to do. But we all can try, right?
In fact, not just people, I'm even trying out new vegetables that I used to "hate" :p But sadly, I still dislike them haha. But now I won't disregard that they are healthy and delicious to many.
Oh and, happy Jannmashthami! I don't know how people celebrate it, but then, happy birthday to Kanha ❤️ (Uhm, I am hindu, but Jannmashthami isn't one of the most festivals at my place, hence I'm not aware :'))
luvmin_kook13
@SassyQueenJIMIN Yess!! The celebration was so fun XD I love Krishna soo much too ❤️
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1jkjm13
@luvmin_kook13 Agree with you, if you can't respect others opinions and choices don't expect them to respect yours. And Happy Janmashtmi!!
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StillWithYouJikook
@luvmin_kook13 it was really true. When someone strongly acknowledge the Hate, the others will easily get influenced and they started hurting just because they said..
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Shortie_ParkJiminie
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1jkjm13
Happy New Year, Meow Meow ♡
May this year bring you lots of happiness and good health <3
luvmin_kook13
@1jkjm13 Happy new year to you too, Woof! This is my last year of JEE grind, and I'll be all free after it :) Hope this new year brings lots of joy, love and success in your life ❤️ May you have the strength to overcome every difficulty. Love you so much ❤️❤️
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Noonenotice5
Hey, don't know if you remember me.... I'm Gowri! The one who loves to call you as kitty
How are you, the cutest kittyy??.... So if you remember me, you did know what was my dream job lol.... Everything changed and now I'm studying engineering! Haha... mechanical one lol. Never thought I could be studying this one tbh. This shi is kinda boring and tough, but yeah whatever. And how's your studies going?
Hope you're all fine:)❤️
luvmin_kook13
@Noonenotice5 Of course I do remember!! Gowrisha :)) Ohh myyy!! From medical to engineering!! Woah. Congratulations!! I'm so happy for you :) Mechanical engineering is one of my favourite fields lol. I'm almost done with class 11th syllabus, and we'll be starting with 12th from December itself! I'm really excited because I'm loving the study (though it's really stressful lmao) I'm doing well ❤️ how are you though??
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SassyQueenJIMIN
@luvmin_kook13 Awwwww really..!! Woowwww..!! ❤️✨ And thank you so much for the follow Dear ❤️✨
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luvmin_kook13
"Hate" is a strong word.
One should think thrice before declaring that they "hate" something. Disliking is a different thing. But hating can't be justified with just "preference"... At least that's what I believe.
Using such negative words have always made me feel bad later on. If you dislike something, it's totally fine. But openly targeting something you don't like is not okay, I think. Others might have a strong connection to the thing you "hate." Think about what they will feel.
As a mere human, it's one of the most basic thing to do: Respect others' opinion and choices. If you feel like something is wrong about their choices, you should focus on WHY they actually like it. Maybe they have a different perspective than you. No one's perfect. You can't practically think of yourself as the most knowledgeable person, right? You should rather confront THEM with open mind.
We should always be respectful and humble. Learn to love. Love is a strong word too, but then, do you realize what it does to your heart? It heals.
These days, I'm learning to love the people who were bad to me, who made me feel terrible. And by loving, I do not mean that I'll literally go in front of them and say, "Yo, you hurt me in past but I love you now"
Haha. By loving, I'm acknowledging their positive side. Yes, they were bad to me. But they must have a good side too. Maybe they were suffering themselves. Of course, I will not risk my mental health by being in front of them, but I shall not hold any grudge.
And this is one of the most difficult things to do. But we all can try, right?
In fact, not just people, I'm even trying out new vegetables that I used to "hate" :p But sadly, I still dislike them haha. But now I won't disregard that they are healthy and delicious to many.
Oh and, happy Jannmashthami! I don't know how people celebrate it, but then, happy birthday to Kanha ❤️ (Uhm, I am hindu, but Jannmashthami isn't one of the most festivals at my place, hence I'm not aware :'))
luvmin_kook13
@SassyQueenJIMIN Yess!! The celebration was so fun XD I love Krishna soo much too ❤️
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1jkjm13
@luvmin_kook13 Agree with you, if you can't respect others opinions and choices don't expect them to respect yours. And Happy Janmashtmi!!
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StillWithYouJikook
@luvmin_kook13 it was really true. When someone strongly acknowledge the Hate, the others will easily get influenced and they started hurting just because they said..
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luvmin_kook13
I really miss reading and writing here :')
Well, less than 2 years to go. Let's hope I get a good college so I can make a comeback here lol
luvmin_kook13
Helloooooo how are you all doing??
luvmin_kook13
@LoveYourself9011013 Of course! I have many memories here with you all, in wattpad. I miss those days. Love you guys!!!
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LoveYourself9011013
@luvmin_kook13 It’s great to see you here again author, really miss you happy that your stopping by to see us ✨✨
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luvmin_kook13
@Jungji777 @Sungieswaist me too hehe. I haven't been on wp much these days so... was just checking up on you lol ❤️ Eat healthy and drink lots of water. Much love ~
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1jkjm13
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