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m0llyp1lls

hi, i'm sorry i'm rly inactive. i had a big hyperfixation over dnf fanfictions and that's why i was always on wattpad. but i started to slowly leave the fandom, and now, i'm not in the fandom anymore. maybe if i find smth else to read i'll come back?

m0llyp1lls

sexualities are getting so complicated. no bc wth is cavusgender? a gender for people with depression??? xumgender for those with anxiety? bordergender for borderline ppl? i genuinely don't understand. i have these mental illness, but i'm not saying that my gender IS one of my mental illness? i want to get ride of them, i'm ashamed of them, why would i want it to be my GENDER? of course, if i meet someone, i'd gladly tell them that i'm in the transgender spectrum. but i won't directly tell them "yeah i have depression, anxiety and a bpd." so, telling them "yeah i'm xumgender" would be like directly telling them "yeah i have anxiety."
          or ariesgender, for aries.
          i really don't understand. i don't want it to come out as rude or something, but i'm getting so confused. 
          /g /nm

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@ jaelxrd  as I see it one thing really has nothing to do with the other one. I can kind of understand a mental illness being a part of someone's overall identity (not really, but I'll pretend that it makes sense), so you could have that be part of your identity and give it a name, but it should not be mixed with gender.
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m0llyp1lls

@jaelxrd oop, i meant to say "*genders are getting so complicated". not sexualities.
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