mellodrammattic

lotta ppl refuse to call trans men just ”men” its always ”i like this one trans guy/i have this trans friend” and not ”i like this guy/i have this hb” stop emphasising that im trans unless its very relevant to the convo im literally js some guy who also likes being an enby sometimes, why do u have to specify what i was born with

snowstorm_train

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@mellodrammattic YESS. EUGH that's not fun yeahhh, it makes you a magnet for harassment. It's also dehumanizing in a way, because they're refusing to see past the queer part of our identity.
          	  
          	  Part of the reason why I like being upfront about it because then I can weed out the queerphobes and co. by being like: "HEY BY THE FUCKING WAY I'M TRANS AND PROUD OF IT" and if people react adversely I can vibe check em and deal with them accordingly. 
          	  
          	  Makes total sense to me! :D
          	  
          	  Tempted to go back to doing what these people do but instead of towards genderqueer people I do it to cis people because fuck em
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mellodrammattic

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@DegamingboerReal real shit twin best twin ever
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mellodrammattic

@snowstorm_train YEAH EXACTLY i get that its part of ur identity n its awesome its a part of mine too but imagine always getting outted out like ''this is my trans (relationship title here)'' when it doesnt matter is so annoying sometimes, i always stealth online n the moment somebody tells someone that i am trans (unless it is important) without permission legit js blocked n ignored idc,, idk how it is for others but i have a big feeling ppl who dont stealth online also get pissed off w this.. 
          	  
          	  some ppl gotta genuinely realise that we're tBOYS not Tboys if that makes sense
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mellodrammattic

lotta ppl refuse to call trans men just ”men” its always ”i like this one trans guy/i have this trans friend” and not ”i like this guy/i have this hb” stop emphasising that im trans unless its very relevant to the convo im literally js some guy who also likes being an enby sometimes, why do u have to specify what i was born with

snowstorm_train

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@mellodrammattic YESS. EUGH that's not fun yeahhh, it makes you a magnet for harassment. It's also dehumanizing in a way, because they're refusing to see past the queer part of our identity.
            
            Part of the reason why I like being upfront about it because then I can weed out the queerphobes and co. by being like: "HEY BY THE FUCKING WAY I'M TRANS AND PROUD OF IT" and if people react adversely I can vibe check em and deal with them accordingly. 
            
            Makes total sense to me! :D
            
            Tempted to go back to doing what these people do but instead of towards genderqueer people I do it to cis people because fuck em
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mellodrammattic

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@DegamingboerReal real shit twin best twin ever
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mellodrammattic

@snowstorm_train YEAH EXACTLY i get that its part of ur identity n its awesome its a part of mine too but imagine always getting outted out like ''this is my trans (relationship title here)'' when it doesnt matter is so annoying sometimes, i always stealth online n the moment somebody tells someone that i am trans (unless it is important) without permission legit js blocked n ignored idc,, idk how it is for others but i have a big feeling ppl who dont stealth online also get pissed off w this.. 
            
            some ppl gotta genuinely realise that we're tBOYS not Tboys if that makes sense
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why do people always say they suffered narcissistic abuse or bpd abuse what does their uncontrollable mental illness have to do with them being a bad person ur js stigmatizing a group of ppl n labeling them as if theyre dangerous n dont deserve love gtfoo ill never fall for ”*insert mental illness here* abuse” bullshit

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@mellodrammattic istfg if anyone says that they suffered from "anxiety abuse" or anything like that imma crash tf out (we just like to know what's going on bestie)
            
            tbh the narcissism one is a bit different (imo) because it's putting other people down. and people with narcissism often don't (at least from my understanding) seek help/therapy because they don't think that they need it. at least, that's how I understand it.
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school starts today im gonna sl1t so hard

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i think im cupioromantic

mellodrammattic

@4shiro cupioromantic, often shortened to cupio, is a term on the aromantic spectrum that describes an individual who desires a romantic relationship/the concept of it, but experiences little to no romantic attraction.
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do we fw the new username do u guys love me

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@mellodrammattic yes, also death note fan but more focus on the lore and memes tbh
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@4shiro MELLO X MATT FROM DEATH NOTE LMFAO
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