mellodrammattic
lotta ppl refuse to call trans men just ”men” its always ”i like this one trans guy/i have this trans friend” and not ”i like this guy/i have this hb” stop emphasising that im trans unless its very relevant to the convo im literally js some guy who also likes being an enby sometimes, why do u have to specify what i was born with
snowstorm_train
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@mellodrammattic YESS. EUGH that's not fun yeahhh, it makes you a magnet for harassment. It's also dehumanizing in a way, because they're refusing to see past the queer part of our identity. Part of the reason why I like being upfront about it because then I can weed out the queerphobes and co. by being like: "HEY BY THE FUCKING WAY I'M TRANS AND PROUD OF IT" and if people react adversely I can vibe check em and deal with them accordingly. Makes total sense to me! :D Tempted to go back to doing what these people do but instead of towards genderqueer people I do it to cis people because fuck em
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mellodrammattic
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@DegamingboerReal real shit twin best twin ever
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mellodrammattic
@snowstorm_train YEAH EXACTLY i get that its part of ur identity n its awesome its a part of mine too but imagine always getting outted out like ''this is my trans (relationship title here)'' when it doesnt matter is so annoying sometimes, i always stealth online n the moment somebody tells someone that i am trans (unless it is important) without permission legit js blocked n ignored idc,, idk how it is for others but i have a big feeling ppl who dont stealth online also get pissed off w this.. some ppl gotta genuinely realise that we're tBOYS not Tboys if that makes sense
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