menhera-a

happy new year y'all ♡

A_Sentient_Sock

I have looked at your Restaurant book. Your reviews on the characters are detailed and I like the constructive criticism. Bravo! But what I wanted to ask you is that could you please give me some tips or a template type of thing for OCs? I would like to make some OCs for my new fanfiction but I don't know where to start. 
          
          -Sock

menhera-a

( @A_Sentient_Sock ) Hi there! Thank you so much! With the end of my book i was considering making a book of tips on how to make an oc but i never saw it through. However now that summer break is starting soon and i will have time i think I'll get to writing! ♡
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Melepoflife

Hey hey heyyyyy! I found your book and I thought it would be nice to see how you are. You appear to be actively posting - even if it might not be too often, which is lovely. But, of course, if it ever gets too much you can always take a break.
          
          Back to my main point, how are you?
          
          If you don't want to answer then don't feel as though you are required too, and if you don't want to reply publicly then you can always pm me and we can chat there or I could give you my discord.
          
          Hope you're doing well, even though I don't know you, and that you reply!
          
          ~Love,
          Melep/Foggy/Abyss.

Melepoflife

@Iampreyhole Heheheh, fair enough.
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menhera-a

@Melepoflife thanks for the thoughtful message! im doing fine atm. i finished eating 2 slices of watermelon and now im going to eat a popsicle. i might be bloated tomorrow from overeating but it's worth it if its for popsicles and watermelon
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menhera-a

I hate my friends. Why do I have to be everyone's therapist? Everyone just shut up and leave me alone. Im tired of everyone. ❤

precious_nuggies

@lampreyhole i feel you :( when i was younger,(7-9) i used to be that one friend who would always comfort everyone, and give them things. i was only being used, and i didn't realize until they started to verbally assault me, until i realized what the fakku they were doing. and now, i don't even know how to comfort people. like, when one of my friends are crying in front of me, i don't know what to do. they're asking for help and i just don't know how. how do i even comfort them? how do i make them feel better? how do i make them cope? i start to panic at that point. even if my situation is  different from your's, i can relate. also, sorry for messaging you at like, 5 months later or sum good day m8!
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menhera-a

@AlphaWerewolf10 Thank you for the considerate message ♡
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planetp3ri

@idealysn I'm really sorry, dude. I have had a lot of friends that were literally always upset or depressed and I felt bad as if it were my job to fix it. But the truth is, it's just not. If your friends are just being sad around you all the time and not even trying, that's not okay. If they are leaning on you for everything, try to speak up about it. I know it's hard, but if you're going through what I think you are, it's what has to happen or no one will be happy. I hope things get better for you.
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menhera-a

At my old school we used to have this thing called tusc. It stood for totally unbelievable speakers club. Except it wasn't even a club because it was a mandatory school activity and everyone was forced to do it. Kids would give speeches/presentations of different topics based on their position that session. 
          
          There was one position where you make a certificate/award to a classmate you thought was a great friend and you would give a speech on why that person was awesome.
          
          Every time one of my friends or a friendly aquaintance was doing that position I would do my best to do extra favours and be extra nice to them but every time when they announced the name it was never mine. Every time I would watch as the person whose name was called would walk up to the podium and take the certificate with their name on it. I would just shrivel up inside knowing that's another person who doesn't think I'm the best friend. It especially hurt when the girl I considered my best friend called another girl's name.
          
          I ended up never having my name called. Not once. I was the only kid in my class who never got the award. Occasionally I think about it today. I think about how nobody thought I was good enough for that award. I wonder if I'm still not good enough for that award.
          
          Did any of you guys go through something similar? (If you have please don't ignore this. I dont want to feel alone in this.)
          
          Anyways if you read all of that I'm sorry for attention seeking. I just wanted to get it out.

menhera-a

@Aurora_Avergarden thank you very much. it means a lot to me. ♡
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Aurura_Avergarden

( @idealysn ) you're not attention seeking.
            
            this was always so difficult. when your friends don't really think you're the friend. you're amazing and sweet and I'm sure, a great writer.
            I don't know who you actually are but you're amazing nonetheless. your story is sad, but stay happy! because you've brought everyone peace with yourself. opening up to many is hard, but it takes time and effort so don't worry. it's okay to take your time.
            everything will be fine! smile now, okay?
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schngwrld

( @idealysn ) opening yourself up to others is difficult, and it certainly takes time. it's alright to take your own time and set your pace, it's cliche but everything will be alright <3
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hyuckvu

username change !
          
          ⌗　from HWACEPTION
          ᨒ　　to hyuckvu

hyuckvu

( @idealysn ) thank you ! the same goes to you too, take care :]
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menhera-a

@hyuckvu thanks! hope you're doing alright sending luv
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menhera-a

there's nothing more devastating than trying to find a fanfiction you read in grade 6 that you can't find

Distracted_Drag0n

@idealysn are we the same people pfft I've been looking for a PJ fanfic that was stellar but I can't seem to find it anywhere
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