guys I don't write much poc in first person because i'm not (fully) poc and I don't want to undermine and misinterpret, or offend anyone. 

What i said about not being fully POC is because I havw one Mongolian (Asian) parent and one White. I look white, and thus have never experienced first hand racism but it has happened to my mom and sister, but again, I don't want to offend any POC writing them and their experiences due to my personal inexperience.

incest is gross! and the same goes for people that raised other people/ think of them as guardians, mentors, and parental figures! that's still incest in my book!

Have a good day!