Hi all. Unfortunately for my sake, we have finally received an answer about my whole visa saga and it was not the one we were hoping for as I have been refused my spouse visa. It came in a few weeks early and super early this morning, sorta messed up my husband/I/our families (on both ends) as it's already been a hellish eleven months waiting on this unnessecarily as I've no doubt filled in on here and to my closer friends I write with even more so. We are trying to get in with a lawyer since my parents have offered to pay for it, I'm having to book a flight home before too long after my 24th birthday on the 12th, etc. It's been a really rough morning/day so far and I'm super low on motivation to do much. With legal stuff, my mental and physical health, family stuff, and trying to temporarily move back to where my parents live in US it's a lot. So my account (as a result) is going to be on a lower level than usual. I love all my discussion, replies, drafts etc but am worked up and overwhelmed with all this so I'm just gonna get to what I can as I go, thanks!