millsmaywritehere

my god i forgot this place existed.. uhm hello

Pug_Moneyz55

Hey there! @Pug_Moneyz55, here. I’m messaging you because you’re in AmberlySunny’s Tangled Fanclub book. I’m a TTSer myself (I probably should come up with a better name) and I was one of the most recent people to join. I don’t know if you’ve really noticed or not- but the fanclub hasn’t been updated in 3 1/2 months...
          So I just wanted to let you know that I’ve got a fanclub book, too, called “Let’s Talk: Tangled The Series”, and you might enjoy it! It’s pretty similar and basically serves the same purpose- and I just wanted to let people know :)
          Thanks for listening

millsmaywritehere

hey there.. i actually hate writing about personal stuff on online. but i need an advise. 
          so, me and 'my best friend' have same interests, music taste, humor style and etc. 
          he was always there to help or listen to my problems when i needed it the most. i've been cyber-bullied by ''old friends'' and he was there to stand up for me and.. yeah..
          and i was there for him when he felt lonely and sometimes when he wanted to do fun things in public but couldn't find someone to join him. haha.
          but. the only problem is. he often* unread people's messages instead of answering them. yes. he is sort of ignoring them, not always but yes he does that.
          one day.. i was crying and felt like i needed to talk with him. i only get out of my house to talk with him, since my parents would be inside. i text him if he's 
          available. he didn't see. i text him again saying i don't feel alright, yet nothing happened. but then, he uploaded some stupid ''stories'' on whatsapp. basically ignoring me. then i text one last time saying it's okay if he's not in the right time to talk. still, nothing happened instead of those ''stories''..
          
          after that i became even more upset and when i wanted to delete my texts from both devices, it didn't let me. then i understand he unread my messages.
          it would be okay if he ignored me when i wasn't feeling upset. but yeah, i was offended and started to ignore him too. after some time, he started to text and i ignored. it went like this and now this became like a.. fight? and now we are talking about eachother in our ''stories''. 
          
          he does this ignoration to everyone but when someone does it to him, he is talking about me like 'this is my fault i shouldn't been so loyal to someone who isn't even loyal to me' ?? 
          did i make something bad without not even realising?  what makes him tell something powerful like that..?

WAYBRIGHTS

aw, i hope it gets better!
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millsmaywritehere

@kara-raine thanks, really :)) i appreciate it. i don't even know how can i show him that while we 'both' ignore each other but still thank you <3.. yesterday, it was our school's 'first day' after quarantine break and yeah. 'we' didn't even looked at each other, directly. what is even more sad is i know his behavior. he is upset yet so quiet, still refuse to admit anything.
            the only hope for me now would be that i know he doesn't hate me, yet, he still hates my bullies., haha..
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WAYBRIGHTS

unfortunately i don't think you did anything wrong to make up for. sometimes relationships ( even friendships ) take a lot of hard work. sometimes a healthy balance of each individuals' give and take cannot be found. i hope that you can just show him that you're willing to be there for him often enough that he realizes that you are a great friend.
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