my mum *brings up the time when my friend wasn't out and deadnames him*
me: he always had been him but no one knew about it, so pls dont use his deadname
my mum: yOU CANT MAKE ME FORGET MY MEMORY OF HIM BEFORE COMING OUT, YOU NEED TO UNDERSTAND HOW HARD IT IS FOR US. IM TOLERANT BUT I KNEW HIM BEFORE HE CAME OUT SO I CAN CALL HIM BY HIS DEADNAME
me: okay, im not gonna argue with you, can you at least not use it around me?
my mum: WHY NOT?? I DONT UNDERSTAND?????
~✨lovely✨~