moxmakes

HAPPY BIRTHDAY to the absolutely ah-mazing @Explosivewafflez , I hope your day is perfect, you deserve every good thing that comes your way!❤️

moxmakes

Oh my Lord, can we please stop with all of these ridiculous, possessive romances? I'm sorry, I love a good romance where the guy protects the girl and all, but if I read one more story where he screams "MINE!" at every boy who talks to her, there's going to be problems.
          You may be dating but that doesn't make them yours. They do not belong to you.
          I'm not justifying cheating here, but pointing out this trope of book-boys that won't let their girlfriends talk to anyone.
          Beating up everyone they talk to, everyone who hurts them, that isn't romantic. It's creepy and parental.
          Texting them rules for when they go out with friends isn't protective or sweet. It's creepy and parental.
          As someone's significant other, it isn't your job to make their decisions or fight their battles. It's your job to support their decisions and help them through their battles.
          You should never rely 100% on your SO, not for basic human functions.
          Claiming ownership of a living, breathing human, and beating up anyone who challenges that, it isn't sexy, it isn't hot, IT'S SLAVERY.
          She's not mine. 
          She's not yours.
          She belongs to herself.

CielloMaxin

@corruptedcoffee I couldn't agree more. People nowadays romanticize whatever they think is cool and in. But they have to realize it doesn't work that way for those who've experienced the real thing. You got me with this message Mel. 
            
            Hope you're okay. Missing you.
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moxmakes

You are more than your scars or hospital stays.
          You are greater than the lies they throw your way.
          You're a broken down mess but you're still breathing, and that's what matters.
          Your past doesn't have to be your future.
          Your past isn't you future.
          Whatever hurt you in the past doesn't have to hurt you now, it doesn't have to control you now.
          With every day that passes you get a little wiser, a little braver and a little stronger.
          Don't live for the past, because there's no changing it, live for the future, because we can still shape it.

CielloMaxin

@corruptedcoffee So need this now. Thank you for writing these words down.
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