It’s a case of having to rip the band aid off, unfortunately this will not be your only coming out story this happens on a daily basis. I am now 40 years old and still come out daily to new co workers bosses etc. It’s about living your true self and loving yourself for who you are, I came out to my parents and it wasn’t horrendous although I think my mum thought my uterus must have run away from my body. Her first comment was I will never get grandchildren, we now have an 8 year old. My advice to you is just tell them sit them down, do it over FaceTime whatever but just do it. I hope that nothing but love come out of it, but you can’t control that you just have to be you.
I am sending rainbows and glitter your way.