Ok. I have a message that I feel needs to be heard. Is there someone in your life who you are holding a grudge against because they wronged you? I know the answer is yes. Go and apologize for holding that grudge and forgive them - whether they are sorry or not. If you hurt someone go apologize for it. If you did something to yourself that you're ashamed of, forgive yourself. Forgiveness goes so far. I have held a grudge against my ex-boyfriend for how we broke up for nine and half months. Tonight I let that go, and it's crazy the weight that was lifted off of my heart. There are still people I need to forgive and those I need to apologize to, but I feel lighter. I feel happier. Forgiveness and love really do make the world go round. It may seem harder at the time, but loving everyone around you and forgiving people and yourself are the key to pure joy. Share this with your friends and family please. I have felt really depressed these past two weeks, and forgiving him made my eyelids lighter and instantly put me in a better mood. I love ya'll so much. You make my day and make me want to share my love with everyone else. <3