n00dle-

wassup guys i’m back. it’s been a long while.

n00dle-

GENDER IS CONFUSING AND SCARY

n00dle-

@-deathdance what if the penis is wearing a skirt and has a tiara
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-petrificus

@n00dle- I CANT HELP THAT MUCH WITH MESSING UP PERSONAL PRONOUNS SINCE I IDENTIFY WITH MY BIRTH GENDER, BUT I DO KNOW THATS TOTALLY NORMAL AND ACCEPTABLE AND THAT THE BEST APPROACH TO IT IS TO LET YOURSELF GET USED TO YOUR NEW IDENTITY AND BE EASY ON YOURSELF
            I REMEMBER WHEN I FIRST CAME OUT AS BI TO JETSUN AND SHE ASKED ME WHETHER I WANTED TO DATE A GIRL OR A BOY IN THE STORY SHE WROTE ABOUT ME AND I WAS SO CONFUSED AS TO WHY SHED ASK THAT UNTIL I REMEMBERED THAT IM BI
            ITS A BIG CHANGE IN YOUR LIFE, AND YOU HAVE TO BE EASY ON YOURSELF
            AND IN RELATION TO MESSING UP OTHER PEOPLES PRONOUNS, IT STRESSES ME SO MUCH
            ESPECIALLY WITHIN A FEW DAYS OF LEARNING SOMEONES IDENTITY OR THE FIRST TIME I TALK TO SOMEONE 
            IT DOESNT HELP I SUBCONSCIOUSLY ASSUME EVERYONE I TALK TO ONLINE IS FEMALE, REGARDLESS OF BIRTH GENDER OR IDENTITY, AND ITS HARD FOR ME TO TURN THAT OFF
            IT MAKES ME SAD BC I 100% RESPECT PEOPLES IDENTITY AND IF I ACCIDENTALLY MISGENDER SOMEONE IN MY HEAD I FEEL AWFUL
            BUT ITS SOMETHING IM WORKING ON, AND AGAIN, YOU HAVE TO BE PATIENT WITH YOURSELF AND TRY YOUR BEST ALWAYS
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n00dle-

@-pxrtytxttoos IM JUST VERY SCARED OF PRONOUNS. I FEEL LIKE 200% A BOY BUT WHAT IF I MESS UP SOMEONES PRONOUNS?? WHAT IF I MESS UP MY PRONOUNS??! AAAAH
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