naimaderilus
I know there's sports female fans that I follow here,mostly basketball and NFL football stans and let me tell you this,if you are crashing out to the idea of a player being married,having a babymama,being engaged or having a girlfriend, please seek help and go talk to a therapist because it's not normal to be so invested in an athlete's personal life to the point thar you have a parasocial relationship with him and harrass the girl who he's in a relationship with. It's also not not normal for you to freak out about his sexual life because,yes if he had lost his virginity,he's gonna be sexually active, have flings,one night stands,hookups or friends with benefits.These male athletes wont give you a chance even if you send them DM's on Instagram or other message on any of their social media platforms,they wont respond to you. They only do if it's to show support. And they wont wait to date any of you because it's a sad reality that most male athletes/players do not date their and don't date their female fans. It is what it is, you will Iive and not gonna die committing suicide because of your fave athletes being around women.
naimaderilus
Male athletes are going to have situatiships,meet girls and will fall in love with other women because they are human beings,not some gods. Stop trying to control their love lives or sexual lives, they are mostly between 20s and 40s.Those are grown adult men who can do whatever they want with their private lives and who they are in a relationship, have kids or sleep with is not our buisness. I understand that it hurts,because I feel this way too,but not to the point I have a parasocial life connected to them. If you are so angry and want to sobs about him living his life with the girl he loves,then do it in a corner and touch grass, there's no need to be mean and sending harsh message to the poor girl who did nothing wrong,but being a WAG. Anyways, if I heard players like Mikey Williams,Jayden Daniels or Ja'marr Chase having gfs, I'm gonna now pray for these girls even through my athletes phase is now gone. Because these poor girls be dating those athletes and his groupies will do anything to harrass her and make her feel bad for having a relationship with him. End of rant because yall act like them drill rap fangirls,honestly,but worse. Get yallselves together.
