if someone calls you loud and opinionated for just speaking your mind passionately, DON'T change yourself. It's good to care about things, and it took me a long time to realize this, accept myself, and eventually like myself. Some people think quiet humans are stronger, but silence does not necessarily equate to strength. Be LOUD about your beliefs, but don't step on others beliefs. ARGUE with others and grow yourself, and if people can't take your good points or arguments, DROP them and search for people that want to grow and be challenged. The most brilliant thinkers like Alexander Hamilton, are known for their spitfire attitude, readiness to debate, and revolutionary ideas, while people like Aaron Burr are now known for their indecisiveness and failure to act. Be PASSIONATE, PROUD, and CONFIDENT, and never give that up for someone who feels threatened by that.