Hey, yk how they say you have that one soulmate out there- that one person? Maybe it’s true, but i think instead there are are more than just one , i mean look at how there are lots of happy couples out there that know they found their person - what are the odds that of however many billions of people they actually found their one and only person? I kinda think there are a lot more than one each of us can find and it feels like their ONE- and it is , but if it had been someone else -a different ONES - their lives together could be just as happy but would look totally different , not even like better or worse different , just following a different path. It’s very possible, yk’ that i have no idea but i’m talking about . My hope for you is that you find your person, or one of them, and that you know it’s finally right, like there aren’t doubts or you thinking maybe she’ll change this one or two things and we’ll be perfect, or I can just bend this one thing about me and that will make it right. Like is who you find is someone you are totally real with each other, best friends and really joyfully satisfied lovers - just someone you want to see last ever day and first every morning - with no only if’s - that you want to grow and adapt with, that’s what my hopes are for you and i know if you don’t just compromise knowing going in that there are doubts - you are going to find her. Who knows when or where but you will <3