@invincible_vien...you're a very insightful person. You view the world through realism but tempered with compassion. That's the fine line, toady, we as people often miss. We get so caught up in troubles. We forget what's really important and want to escape it all, like into fantasy, which isn't bad, but can be if we lose touch with reality. We could just as easily become so real, we lose touch with our humanity. Spoke looks good on the big screen. But, in real life, his emotionless persona doesn't serve much of a practical purpose. Even Vulcans experienced emotions of some type, such as fascination, intrigue, curiosity; all these are subconscious reactions to underlying emotion. Emotions we are often times unaware. So, my advice is simple. Embrace your core values. They not only define who we are, but safeguard our sanity as well.