organharvest

@xMiss-Mia0x true... i like tall blond young men with beautiful long hair. that's why i don't let my boyfriend cut his hair past a certain point lol

organharvest

@xMiss-Mia0x it's just pure delusion and cope. Older haggard guys and walled geriatric middle aged males always assume young women and teenage girls want them. We don't. We never have. It's always the brainwashed, low self esteem pickme girls with issues who fall for old men, but they are outliers who get preyed on due to their naivety and issues so they don't count.
          
          Hollywood and corn always portray older males with young women, and of course these guys get psyopped into believing that's how it works in reality because they want it to be true. It's also like how the media tried to say women liked Ted Bundy.. when that isn't true. He was hideous and weaponized people's empathy by pretending to be harmless, he wasn't a womanizer and he wasn't charismatic. Ask any women from that time period who they thought were hot, and they'll tell you that the guys they liked were young fit rockstars with long hair. Why do you think the Beatles and guys like Sebastian Bach were so popular when they were young? The media and older men have always tried to claim that we like older men, but it doesn't line up with actual clear observable patterns and statistics. Even in the past, most relationships were age appropriate.

organharvest

@xMiss-Mia0x True, being misogynistic is a characteristic that only unattractive, mentally ill, and walled hag males possess. It’s a personal failing that is externalized, and they cannot play fair because they know they would lose. Why else do you think they get off on humiliation tactics and trying to enslave you

organharvest

@xMiss-Mia0x Because women are the default sex of the species, and men are a genetic dispersal mechanism for variation in the gene pool [because genetic variety is needed to help us evolve, and prevent our species from being overtaken by diseases, gene disorders, parasites, etc]. Look up the Red Queen Hypothesis. It is not “sexist” or “hateful” or “pseudoscience” to acknowledge this, it’s quite literally how nature and biology works. Anyone getting offended over this is just insecure and telling on themselves, this isn’t even remotely negative.

organharvest

@xMiss-Mia0x it’s unironically because of enablers. Like pickmes. Pickmes are incredibly dangerous to be around because they will put you in harm’s way all to gain the validation of a man. I say this with full sincerity. Have you ever heard of this quote, "The oppressor would not be so strong if he did not have accomplices among the oppressed"? It’s true. Evil and malice persists due to enablers and accomplices, and people turning a blind eye. Pickmes are brainwashed and cowardly obviously, but they recruit other victims simply by proximity and by pretending to be on your side. Old men are the root issue of course, but pickmes and enablers allow them to be this strong and untouchable in the first place by fueling the flames, instead of trying to put out the fire so it stops spreading. And it’s a cascade effect. The fire isn’t going to put out itself.

organharvest

@xMiss-Mia0x Exactly. I absolutely despise when men get defensive and try to question, negotiate, or challenge me. I'm not going to interact with a petulant child who doesn’t respect my boundaries. Any ounce of respect I could've had just disappears in an instant the second they do that. I'm not playing, I'm very decisive. No means no, and that's final. The second this happens, I just block/ignore them. I do not entertain this behavior. They can scheme and accuse me of being unreasonable all they want, but I will not fall for these manipulative shame tactics. I have a happy and busy life with my family and my boyfriend, and I don't have time for this. Likewise, you should do the same.
          
          Also, it’s important that you understand what that behavior they’re displaying is. All those small offenses, while they seem insignificant, pill on and they are designed to wear you down and normalize their behavior. I’m not exaggerating. A lot of men are covert predators and abusers and they will use any excuse in the book, including the “joke” or “harmless” or “you’re a prude/overreacting” excuse to confuse and shame you for being rightfully alarmed. Do not be ashamed for being uncomfortable, and do fall for any bargaining/pressure. Millions of years of evolution and you have these body responses for a reason, they are designed to protect you. The moment you feel uncomfortable or that something is wrong, listen to your body because it is valid to say no. Your safety is #1 priority, and you don’t need to explain yourself to them.