organharvest
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words cannot express how happy I am to not see krato's hideous walled bald geriatric nasty roidpig wrinkly haggard character anymore. i can finally play this game ❤️
organharvest
my boyfriend just surprised me with blossomforth???? i don’t even know how to thank him, i've always wanted this pony omg
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@xMiss-Mia0x Because women are the default sex of the species, and men are a genetic dispersal mechanism for variation in the gene pool [because genetic variety is needed to help us evolve, and prevent our species from being overtaken by diseases, gene disorders, parasites, etc]. Look up the Red Queen Hypothesis. It is not “sexist” or “hateful” or “pseudoscience” to acknowledge this, it’s quite literally how nature and biology works. Anyone getting offended over this is just insecure and telling on themselves, this isn’t even remotely negative.
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@xMiss-Mia0x it’s unironically because of enablers. Like pickmes. Pickmes are incredibly dangerous to be around because they will put you in harm’s way all to gain the validation of a man. I say this with full sincerity. Have you ever heard of this quote, "The oppressor would not be so strong if he did not have accomplices among the oppressed"? It’s true. Evil and malice persists due to enablers and accomplices, and people turning a blind eye. Pickmes are brainwashed and cowardly obviously, but they recruit other victims simply by proximity and by pretending to be on your side. Old men are the root issue of course, but pickmes and enablers allow them to be this strong and untouchable in the first place by fueling the flames, instead of trying to put out the fire so it stops spreading. And it’s a cascade effect. The fire isn’t going to put out itself.
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@xMiss-Mia0x Exactly. I absolutely despise when men get defensive and try to question, negotiate, or challenge me. I'm not going to interact with a petulant child who doesn’t respect my boundaries. Any ounce of respect I could've had just disappears in an instant the second they do that. I'm not playing, I'm very decisive. No means no, and that's final. The second this happens, I just block/ignore them. I do not entertain this behavior. They can scheme and accuse me of being unreasonable all they want, but I will not fall for these manipulative shame tactics. I have a happy and busy life with my family and my boyfriend, and I don't have time for this. Likewise, you should do the same. Also, it’s important that you understand what that behavior they’re displaying is. All those small offenses, while they seem insignificant, pill on and they are designed to wear you down and normalize their behavior. I’m not exaggerating. A lot of men are covert predators and abusers and they will use any excuse in the book, including the “joke” or “harmless” or “you’re a prude/overreacting” excuse to confuse and shame you for being rightfully alarmed. Do not be ashamed for being uncomfortable, and do fall for any bargaining/pressure. Millions of years of evolution and you have these body responses for a reason, they are designed to protect you. The moment you feel uncomfortable or that something is wrong, listen to your body because it is valid to say no. Your safety is #1 priority, and you don’t need to explain yourself to them.
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@xMiss-Mia0x Honestly? I get it. Unironically most if not all men (old and young) turn me off completely because they are reminiscent of children and teenagers to me. They are like overgrown children in how they communicate, how they handle conflict, how they process information, and how immature they are. The constant flattery, poor reading comprehension, the performative intellect, the egotism, playing obtuse, the scheming, the banal cruelty, being hypocritical, the constant projection and inability to view anything outside of their narrow worldview, having poor grammar, the chimp-outs and tantrums, poor hygiene, inability to read context, defensive deflections, and negotiating… it’s exhausting. It makes interacting with them feel like babysitting or teaching, not engaging with an equal. I do not see men as my equals, I do not mistreat them although I secretly think this, and I am unfortunately straight though but it isn’t by choice. I end up feeling like a groomer whenever I interact with men even if they are older than me, and even when I know that’s irrational. All age demographics of men (young or old) just make me feel like I’m interacting with a child. And it’s repulsive and unattractive. I’m already someone who feels disgust and contempt easily, and this is just another layer of disrespect. It makes me very detached. I've spoken to men in big positions and who were studying quantum engineering or whatnot. And they're still just like children. I don't mean being whimsical/soft or attuned with their inner child, I mean like.. what I described earlier. This is a widespread male issue, not a minority. It makes me feel like I’m always the adult in the room and that’s not a role I consented to and it makes the whole thing feel vaguely gross. I’m not someone who wants any of this to be true. I’d prefer a world where it wasn’t. But wanting it to be different doesn’t make it different, and I’ve accumulated too much evidence especially after becoming researcher.
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@xMiss-Mia0x No, you're fine. Dating should be about ruthless filtering, not "he's nearby, kinda nice, and I'm mildly attracted so let's see what happens." Most people settle hard and then act shocked when the relationship turns into resentment and misery. You refusing to do that is one of the smarter things you're doing, even if it leaves you frustrated. The reddit cope ("most men will find a virgin/high-standards girl admirable and high value") is annoying bullshit. A lot of men say they want that... until they meet a girl who actually has strong boundaries, zero tolerance for bullshit, and won't put up with their flaws or bodycount even if it's 1. Then they either get intimidated or try to negotiate. The "admirable high value" praise usually disappears the moment your standards actually inconvenience them. Men often don’t mean what they say when it comes to female selectivity. They want the status of having a selective woman, but they don’t want the actual work or rejection that comes with it. So a lot of them love the idea of a young, untouched, selective girl… right up until she actually enforces her standards on them. Then the shaming, gaslighting, and “you’re being irrational” script comes out immediately. I would know, that's how it was before I met my boyfriend.
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@xMiss-Mia0x bro who cares, he's gonna be walled in like 2-3 years because men literally expire in their mid twenties due to having short telomeres and trash lifestyles. This isn’t even an exaggeration either, science backs it up. Also his only hobbies are smoking, drinking, vidya, and gym. He's already showing signs of balding and he's got wrinkle lines. It's over, he's already a hag plus he's fat so just stop talking to that performative troglodyte. He's just gonna keep being mean to you
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@xMiss-Mia0x Of course not. All judges are freemasons. And deriving joy from causing distress is an evident sign of narcissism and psychopathy, which is biologically regressive and incompatible with human life because we are communal, neuroplastic, intelligent, k-selective animals. Males are overwhelmingly underdiagnosed especially with BPD and NPD. Females are designed to filter out males, and removing female mate selection choice for thousands of years produced the males you see today. It’s extremely unnatural and unsustainable. Why do you think crime, corruption, and degeneracy is so prevalent with that gender demographic globally? It’s not a conspiracy, it’s not misandry, and it isn’t eugenics to point this out. Biology and culture is an intertwined, continuous feedback loop. It’s important to remember that we’ve existed longer than the past thousands of years when everything became backwards, things aren’t as bleak or “normal” as these males want you to believe.
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@xMiss-Mia0x I know. I said this before and I'll say it again: Predators love to project and claim that you're actually the creep for being weirded out. They claim that you're projecting when you call them out, it's just DARVO and it's a shame tactic to silence/confuse you. It's intentional, and they're pretending to be innocent to normalize themselves. I work around people in cybersecurity and it is very important that we're aware of how these predators behave since they rely on **plausible deniability** and often try to infiltrate vulnerable spaces to exploit. And yes, they absolutely know being openly degenerate would make it hard to wheel in the trojan horse. If they can make it about "censorship,” “protection,””dark humor,”“culture war”, or "politics," they don't have to address what’s actually going on. They use those buzzwords to build a wall of noise, making it impossible to have a serious conversation of these signals in mainstream media and communities. Again, It’s a deliberate tactic to shield themselves and their behavior.