life is full of disappointments, daddy's cant always make recitals or concerts, boyfriends wont always stay loyal,  grades wont always be A's no matter how hard we study. even if we try to to avoid them , they always come back to bite us in the ass. but how we decide to take that bite is what defines us.  choosing to embrace and move on can make you higher. doing opposite can make you bitter.  but  not letting the disappointments nor the upbringings can make you... you. dont let anything define you besides your own self. think of life as your game, your rules, your say. deal yourself, dont let life deal you.