As a psych student, this hate train is honestly alarming. You may think that your comments are “just words,” but you don’t know how deeply those words can affect someone. Every insult, curse, name you call her, and hateful comment can feel like another knife being thrown at a person who is already dealing with the consequences of their mistake.
Yes, nagkamali siya. Mali ang ginawa niya, and she should be held accountable–but is that enough reason para tawagin siya ng kung anu-ano, i-degrade siya, at tratuhin na parang mas malala pa sa taong nakapatay? Hindi. Accountability doesn’t mean destroying someone’s mental health just to prove that you’re disappointed.
People always say “mental health matters,” pero kapag may taong nagkamali, biglang nakakalimot maging tao. Grabe mang-bash, mang-insulto, at manghusga, without even thinking about what their words could do to someone. You don’t know what she’s going through behind the screen.
You have the right to be disappointed. You have the right to stop supporting her. But please, learn the difference between holding someone accountable and emotionally tearing them down. She made a mistake, but she’s still a human being with feelings. One mistake doesn’t give anyone the right to treat her like she deserves endless hate.