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There's nothing wrong with being gender neutral, you know, or having no gender you identify with. A lot of people I know think there are only two genders, but I think there are seven- boy, girl, boy & girl, neither, mostly boy, mostly girl, and changes from day to day. Maybe I missed some l: But there's nithing wrong with being any of those! You're still human, and people will love you for you no matter what gender you identify as, if any. Don't worry, people on wattpad won't care what you identify as, and I hope that's true irl for you, too. <3

_Glucose_Guardian_

Just be yourself, that's all that counts. Don't let anyone else tell you who you are because only you can say that.

possiblytrans

@SoulSing3r Thank you so much. That's so true though. I've always had a really big internal struggle over what others would think of me and how that'd make me feel. I'm slowly getting over that day by day. It hasn't been easy, but it's definitely worth it.
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_Glucose_Guardian_

I have struggles to in that area. It helps to talk to others, and I watch and listen to a lot of youtubers such as Ryan Stalvey, Sam Collins, Ryan Cassata, uppercase Chase. Listening to other peoples stories helped me to understand more about the topic and that others go through it too in all different ways. I've found people who are really similar to how I feel, so hopefully you'll discover what label fits right for you. But just to let you know, you don't have to label yourself at all, especially if it doesn't sound right to you.

possiblytrans

@SoulSing3r Omg I love literally all of those youtubers. And same, when I first started feeling this way turning to social media really helped. And thank you, even though I posted that last part where I said that I felt trans, there are times in which I really don't want to put a label on it. Like for well over half a year I was going through this extremely masculine phase, and that felt like me. Then I went through a more nb phase. Either way I know that that is apart of who I am and I don't need a label to define myself. I think I knew that deep down, but it became a lot easier for me once I accepted it.
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MarshallCH

Hi

possiblytrans

@DarkWithTheHarmony Hello! Sorry I didn't reply until a week later I haven't been on wattpad much but am planning on writing more, maybe not even just on being possibly transgender. Also I do definitely see myself being gender fluid which I believe you might've mentioned on another part of this. I've recently found a really nice medium of in-between. After cutting my hair I definitely have a renewed sense of self-confidence and really felt comfortable wearing any clothes. I even went to the mall the other day and shopped in the mens section :D
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