@gardcnias oh I get it. Okay, honestly, if they won’t let it go, and I mean this in no disrespect towards you, but maybe it really hurt their feelings. I saw on one of their posts that you didn’t apologise, maybe to give them closure, you should just give an apology to them. As I said, I mean this in zero disrespect towards you, because I am more than open to people changing and learning and growing from their mistakes, and you clearly acknowledge that you did make a mistake, but I do think maybe they deserve a sincere apology in order to let this go for them. Maybe sit with this for a few days so that you can try to gather your thoughts, and when you’re ready (obviously you don’t have to but I think it might be worth it), maybe consider apologising to them. As for you going on the defensive, that’s normal, it’s almost a fight or flight reaction, however, depending on how you all handled that situation might’ve made this situation a lot worse. I would honestly say to apologise and maybe then they’ll move on. I am sorry this is happening though, this sucks for both parties:(