rajmata_shivgami

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Guess, I'm really really really sorry for being this late. But life is fucked up rn. Itna kuch ho rha hai ki I can't handle all these. I'm exhausted, mentally amd physically. 
          	
          	I need a bit of time. 1 haftte me I will surely update ROD and after that TFOL. 
          	
          	Please be patience.
          	
          	Radhe Radhe

rajmata_shivgami

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Guess, I'm really really really sorry for being this late. But life is fucked up rn. Itna kuch ho rha hai ki I can't handle all these. I'm exhausted, mentally amd physically. 
          
          I need a bit of time. 1 haftte me I will surely update ROD and after that TFOL. 
          
          Please be patience.
          
          Radhe Radhe

rajmata_shivgami

          To all those lost in the mirage of true love, here is a reality check.
          
          True love doesn't exist. Marriages aren't always this dreamy.
          
          I have seen. 
          
          I have seen couple in love marriages abusing each other and their families. Throwing things and words at each other. 
          
          I have seen couple in arrange marriage. The MIL fighting and abusing [verbally] The DIL and the husband not taking a stand for her and just marching out of the house.
          
          I have seen couple in a ruler area, the DIL soft spoken, yet exploited so badly that she had to leave her 8 years old and commit s*icide. 
          
          
          The woman is always asked to keep quite, to shut up, to adjust, and rest of the family just shouts. 
          
          Nothing like love or fairytales exist in real life.
          
          GET OUT OF THE MIRAGE.
          
          
          
          
          
          Radhe Radhe ❤️ 
          

cwr_ites

@rajmata_shivgami 
            Real world is very different from stories and at some extend I do agree with you. Started working in cooperate just an year ago and have witnessed people have extra martial affairs and flirting with younger staff members. And mind you all these people have had love marriages. 
            
            
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rajmata_shivgami

@cwr_ites This just clenches my heart. Yk for me, marriage is just a way to please society. I mean- I don't find any solid concept to get married. The examples I gave are of my house and relatives. And it's just something I hate
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rajmata_shivgami

Men who reply instantly >>>>>>>>
          
          *They don't exist*

Apurvapatil478

@rajmata_shivgami no just wanted to tell you about this author booktopia55 she is going to delete some off her very well written books ..... Just a suggestion for u as u are a new writer 
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rajmata_shivgami

@Apurvapatil478 Oh that's generous of you but I already have a huge TBR
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Apurvapatil478

@rajmata_shivgami  ok still u should try her Book i mean read it it's well written 
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indraRiDER

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rajmata_shivgami

A gentle reminder. 
          
          Don't hold on grudges. 
          I know it's hard and suffocating and that's exactly why I'm saying this. Talk to that one person you want to clear things out with, scream, shout, abuse, have a full fledge fight but don't suffocate yourself. Force the other one to talk if they don't want to but clear everything out.
          
          Remember you deserve clarity. You deserve peace of mind. 
          
          I'm saying that because I know how to feels when you hold on grudges for too long. So please I beg, talk. Don't suffocate yourself.
          
          I'm not asking to let go, I'm asking to acknowledge your emotions. Your emotions are valid. Fight for them. You deserve it. Please talk to that one person and clear things out.
          
          Goodnight. I love you all. 
          
          And if you need any type of advice, I repeat ANY TYPE of advice, talk to me. I give the best advice In everything. 
          
          Radhe Radhe