I mean imo gender is really not real to me...I mean obviously sex is real and what that means for human bodily functions, but gender is just sort of something we made up centuries ago, and people only hold so much stock in it because it’s been around for so long. To me, “girl” and “boy” and certain pronouns are like name preferences. Like I don’t mind being called “she”, it’s like an old nickname, but “they” is a good thing too. If you wanna identify as a girl and use she and her, but you also like to be called “good boy” sometimes, that’s perfectly valid. I feel like it’d be odd for someone to be completely within one gender binary (meaning 100% feminine or masc, like in a toxic way)
Anyways, sorry to ramble!