razzledazzlecalista

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          	Hey guys, so I need advice on something. It's regarding a friend of mine. I don't really have too many people to talk to about this in the real world, and even then, I think it would be nice to hear impartial, unbiased opinions from you guys, especially since you guys don't know this friend of mine.
          	
          	So, I have a friend who's been struggling with her mental health for a while now. She goes through these weird "phases", where some days she'll be really depressed and having a really hard time (she has sent several "this is goodbye" type messages to my friends that are very alarming, on multiple occasions) and then the next day she'll be fine but it's still scary. This has been going on for a while now and I really want to get her help because I feel like she isn't getting the help she needs. She's currently doing fine right now but I never know when she's going to go back into one of these "phases". I've heard from her inner circle that she has resorted to self-harm and taking drugs on some occasions. I just don't know what to do! Please offer any advice you have, it would mean a lot to me. And if you want to talk about this with me more in depth, feel free to DM me, as always.

MrsOleksiak

@razzledazzlecalista just be there for her. She may not admit it but that’s what she meeds
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thesarangsense

@razzledazzlecalista the best thing you can do is encourage her to seek help and reassure her that you care. That’s all you can control
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nxght-wxng

@razzledazzlecalista id say, if she isnt willing to help herself, than there's no way for you to help. it sucks, but its true
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nxght-wxng

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hiya, its me, yeah, I know I'm annoying but I don't really care haha. so anyway, you, yeah I'm talking to you bitch. do you know how badass you are? cuz I don't think you do. you're like SUPER badass. ight, I bet if, let's say, okay, lets say if matty tkachuk met you, he'd be like, "This girl is badass!" and if he didn't, well then, I'd smack him but that's me haha. you be you girl. I'm a sarcastic bitch, and guess what!? I love it! so, whether wearing the tiniest clothes makes you happy, or the baggiest makes you happy, you do you! don't let them bitches that wanna be you, tear you down.  you're amazing, okay? and I love you like a sister. so if any bitches try and hurt you, I will snap their bones in half, okay? okay. byeeeeeeee
          
          - cosette 

razzledazzlecalista

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          Hey guys, so I need advice on something. It's regarding a friend of mine. I don't really have too many people to talk to about this in the real world, and even then, I think it would be nice to hear impartial, unbiased opinions from you guys, especially since you guys don't know this friend of mine.
          
          So, I have a friend who's been struggling with her mental health for a while now. She goes through these weird "phases", where some days she'll be really depressed and having a really hard time (she has sent several "this is goodbye" type messages to my friends that are very alarming, on multiple occasions) and then the next day she'll be fine but it's still scary. This has been going on for a while now and I really want to get her help because I feel like she isn't getting the help she needs. She's currently doing fine right now but I never know when she's going to go back into one of these "phases". I've heard from her inner circle that she has resorted to self-harm and taking drugs on some occasions. I just don't know what to do! Please offer any advice you have, it would mean a lot to me. And if you want to talk about this with me more in depth, feel free to DM me, as always.

MrsOleksiak

@razzledazzlecalista just be there for her. She may not admit it but that’s what she meeds
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thesarangsense

@razzledazzlecalista the best thing you can do is encourage her to seek help and reassure her that you care. That’s all you can control
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nxght-wxng

@razzledazzlecalista id say, if she isnt willing to help herself, than there's no way for you to help. it sucks, but its true
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thesarangsense

*there's no turning back after you start reading this. Trust me. This will put a smile on your face. Every night someone thinks about you. At least 15 people in this world love you. The only reason someone whatever hate it was because they want to be you. There are two types of people in this world, that are which for you, and that are against you*
          
          [You mean the world to someone, someone you don't even known loves you. Anytime you make a mist6,good comes out of it. Whenever you think the world has turned against you, turn around. Remember the compliments someone has given you and not the rude things]
          
          :) so if your a loving friend, sent this to 15 people  (including the one who sent it to you :D) something goof will happen between noon and 4 pm tomorrow, it could be anywhere. Get ready for the biggest shock of your life. Send this to 15 people, make someone's day! Help someone out! Remember that you are loved :) 
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          F-ight for you 
          R-espect you
          I-nvolve
          E-ncourage you
          N-eed you
          D-eserve you 
          S-ave you

nxght-wxng

hiii, its me, again. so, I wanted to say thank you. you have been one of my best friends since day one and you never fail to make me smile. you are so so important to me and if anything ever happened to you, id be devastated. so pls make sure you're eating and drinking enough and getting enough of sleep! ily!!! <3333

razzledazzlecalista

Hey guys, so I might not be as active on here anymore for a bit. I'm currently getting ready to move in with my boyfriend on Sunday, and once that happens I'll want to spend more time with him. I'll still update and respond to roleplays, but maybe not as often as I used to. I'm still working on re-publishing everything I took down for maintenance, and once I'm done I'll go back to posting an NHL preference and/or social media post every day. I'm also going to start working on my applyfic, which I'm super excited about! Just wanted to give you guys a heads up though, things might be a little slower.
          
          Calista

nxght-wxng

@razzledazzlecalista omgggggg have funnnnnnnnn!!! trust me, I know what moving is like and it ain't fun haha but I wish you and your boyfriend all the best, and if he hurts you, I will not hesitate to kick him where the sun ain't shining 
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JMWard72

@razzledazzlecalista 
            Moving. Ick! The process I mean.
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JMWard72

I wanted you to know that Josephbevacqua1 is a known pedophile. He private messages teens, mostly girls, and wants to roleplay with them. He contacted some of my followers and the pattern of behavior is alarming. He doesn't engage with adults from what I can tell. Block him, warn your followers. Report him for harassment if he contacted you. He's one of your followers.

razzledazzlecalista

When your best guy friend/longtime crush of 5 years calls you at midnight to tell you he loves you and now you're dating...