if you came here from that fifth harmony b!tch's nasty @ss fanfic, i am more than happy to f!cking obliterate you for condoning this nasty @ss sh!t.
reminder that i cannot f!cking stand ddlg it's so f!cking gross. it's disgusting and insulting to the following groups:
- autistic people (ableist kink tingz! people in ddlg tend to copy autistic stimming behaviors to appear more childlike and in doing so s!xualize something most autistic people do)
- CSA survivors and victims (s!xualizes CSA)
- incest survivors and victims (s!xualizes incest)
- the BDSM community (makes them look delegitimized)
- people who need to wear adult diapers (s!xualizes adult diapers)
- babies, toddlers, and chilren (s!xualizing them via their clothing, their behavior, the items they use, how they talk and act)
- fathers and daughters (people have literally attested online to saying that their dads are uncomfortable with being called daddy anymore bc of ddlg becoming more well known)
- AGE REGRESSORS!!! they are so f!cking stigmatized as is by neurotypical people, people who refuse to try understanding the reasons behind it online, and therapists/psychs who don't understand it and won't do research on it. ddlg c!nts try to disguise as ageres in order to infiltrate their communities and then post nsfw content and crosstag (mainly on tumblr and instagram) to tags meant to be safe for age regressed people.
this is a topic i feel strongly about as i used to be an age regressor and caregiver, and have had 2 age regressors of my own.
ddlg is one of the main reasons i stopped regressing -- i no longer felt safe in my online community, and people in ddlg were CONSTANTLY trying to interact with me. it would put me out of my headspace consistently. i ended up making that account into my second vent because i stopped regressing and when i do regress, if ever, it's extremely painful as my regressed self misses his old caregiver who i don't speak to due to personal conflicts.