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it is unrealistic to expect many things these
          	  days from a potential partner/lover. things
          	  like them having a substantial job at the age
          	  of 19—21. it is so wrong to judge someone
          	  based off their looks [alone]. for me, as long
          	  as they are not a very unhealthy weight, i
          	  will give them a chance. and i mean unhealthy
          	  in the way that they don't [want] better for
          	  themselves, they don't [want] to change or
          	  live really.       i am 154, and struggled with
          	  my weight, especially as an endomorph, for
          	  most of my teenage years. as soon as i had
          	  turned 18, and was diagnosed with chronic
          	  gastritis, i began changing things in my diet
          	  so i wasn't in pain daily, so i wasn't struggling.
          	  i exercised, i took walks with my dog and
          	  began eating better. and eating better does
          	  not mean salads or anything, it just means
          	  reading labels, examining the sodium count
          	  and keeping tabs on your calorie intake by
          	  the day. it's a challenge, but all it takes is
          	  patience, time, and commitment to losing
          	  that weight. i wish the best with your own
          	  journey if you are currently on one, you really
          	  do deserve so much more, and remember
          	  that you are always loved.