me asf bc ik she's way too old, but their friendship makes me nervous bc i don't trust HER. let me clear this up for you. me and my bf have been dating for abt a month now, and have a mutual friend. however, he is a lot closer to this mutual friend than i am. she's a senior, i'm a sophomore, and he's a freshmen, so she's way too old for him. but their relationship makes me nervous. my friend was dating his older brother for a bit, and talked to me about a similar problem she had with out mutual friend. it's bad because his brother has tried to bring it up to him before, but they both end up putting me on the spot, and i feel like i have to say i don't care, when in reality, i do. it's not him that i don't trust. i know he cares deeply about me and doesn't want to hurt me in any way shape or form. but it's her that i don't trust. i've heard rumors about her previous relationships, and while i can't say anything bc mine were equally as bad (I finally got a green flag), i'm not trauma dumping about them to other people's boyfriends. i know i need to talk to him, but i really don't want to start something with her. if anyone has any advice it would be much appreciated