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YOU GUYSSSS!!! we finally got our marriage license!!!!!! 68 MORE DAYS UNTIL I BECOME A WIFEEYYYYYY!!!!!! may fourth can’t come fast enough!!! :,) <33

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“i have something someone wants. they have something i want. looks like we’re both desiring something we can’t get.”
          
          this girl i’m friends(?) with reposted a tiktok with that caption.
          
          for reference; i am engaged to my fiancé and we were only together for a year before he asked. we plan to get married in may which would make us being together for approximately 2 yrs 4 months.
          
          the girl has been with her boyfriend for at least 7 years, and she has a little girl with him plus expecting a baby boy in a few months. and he has never proposed to her yet he gives her this tiny bit of hope that he will but she gets met with disappointment when he doesn’t.
          
          i had a miscarriage back in october and my fiancé and i have been hoping to try again soon. but ever since my miscarriage, she’s been rubbing her pregnancy in my face and reposting this little tiktoks that i feel are a slap on the face towards me.
          
          she even asked me what my fiancé and i were getting her as a gift for her baby shower, to which i responded with “i gave you a onesie a little while back. doesn’t that count?” and she stared at me like i was speaking a different language and said “that was before you knew about the baby shower.” and i just said “well, times are tough and we have a wedding and honeymoon to save up for, so we won’t be able to get anything. i’m really sorry. i wish we could.” and she scoffed quietly and said “you have time to go to [city] for training and eat out and stuff, and you can’t afford to buy me a little gift?” y’all .. i was dumbfounded. i couldn’t believe what i was hearing.
          
          anyways. i have since stopped all communication with her and i don’t really speak to her when she visits at work (her boyfriend works with me and my fiancé) and she’s been really upset because of my distancing. but i can’t be bothered to tolerate that sort of behavior from someone who claimed to be my friend.
          
          am i overthinking it or could it be intentional? i’m so bleh. :(

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soo .. i was going to not invite my aunt and uncle (regarding my other post) to my wedding in may .. but my mom already told them to save the date and stuff. so. looks like they’re interested in me and stuff and really excited to go.
          
          part of me just wants to say heck it and let them go. but another part of me wants to be like “oh, your invitation probably got lost in the mail. sorry.” just to be petty. even though i’m better than that.
          
          but. still. i see no reason for them to be invited if they’ve done nothing to deserve it.
          
          they never wished me a happy birthday. they never checked up on me when i had my miscarriage. they never message me at all. so. :/ idk what to do.

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YOU GUYS!!!! i just got a promotion at work!
          
          i’ll be working 20hrs ($14/hr) as a sales clerk and 20hrs ($15/hr) as a receiving / inventory clerk.
          
          i didn’t have to go through the interview process and i’m so happy that i got bumped up from $13/hr!
          
          this is going to be such big help for my wedding in may!
          
          i could cry. i’m so so happy. :’) <33

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AITA if i don’t invite my aunt and uncle to mine and my fiancé’s wedding?
          
          so, i just found out that one of my aunt’s unfriended me from facebook. i feel heartbroken. i love her so much. but, her and my uncle both never showed any support for me when i moved out nearly two years ago.
          
          my uncle tried pressuring me into reconciling with my mom barely a month after i moved. i never responded to any of his messages. i figured my mom and i would need time to heal before getting together. which we did, and now we’re doing really good together.
          
          he also practically called my fiancé someone who was working for the devil. (my family is veeery religious.) and i won’t ever allow anyone to disrespect my partner in any shape or form.
          
          but, i’m also really reconsidering inviting her and my uncle to my wedding in may this year. i’ll still have to see them in march for my stepdad’s birthday party, but i feel like it would make it worse if they don’t get an invitation and my family talks about the wedding with them.
          
          i don’t know what to do. :(