apollosconverseshoe

I’m questioning being trans/gender fluid/enby but I don’t know what my family is like with that kinda stuff. I also don’t understand what I should do, I feel like a boy or gender less and I’m a girl right now. I thought about names and I really like Kai, can you help me?

romanticfish234

Also I loveeeeeeee the name Kai!
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romanticfish234

Well for me it really became a question of what makes me feel more comfortable I’ve grown up in small town Texas so from a vary young age I had a image of what I thought a man was I knew ever since I could think that I wanted to be a boy but I didn’t know if I wanted to be a man (if that makes any sense) because I had always had a image of what I thought a man was but after I began to meet new people my idea of what I thought was a man began to fall off and I realized that even if I identified as a man I didn’t have to fall into those toxic masculinity category’s I had set up for myself that I thought where “manly” and that even if I acted more or less “feminine” that didn’t make me any less valid,
            I’m only 14 but I wish I could go back and slap little 10 year old me who thought I couldn’t be trans because I liked the color pink 
            So just do what makes you feel comfortable if you want to ware a binder and you want to use he/him pronouns but you also want to ware a skirt that’s completely fine just do what ever makes you feel the most comfortable in your own skin 
            
            
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mxrcuriee

hi um
          i think i’m ftm? i don’t know if i’m trans though. i want to be a boy, i want he/him/his but i also like skirts and makeup and feminine stuff? i can’t tell if i’m transgender or just going through another phase

eliisjstbetter_

maybe you could be a fem trans man?
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non_existant_

Trigender bigender genderfluid genderflux demigender 
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Life_is_a_taco

@mxrcuriee You could be Trigender
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Beanologist

Sup dudes!
          I’m trans ftm, and I’m gay 
          My parents are transphobic, so I can’t come out. My mental health is absolutely trashed. That means I cry a lot and I started to cut a while ago. Depression plus dysphoria equals anime marathons at 2:00am. I’m surrounded by people but I feel alone. I need someone to talk to who’s not my cat please!
          

-jamesify_ALT

@Beanologist hello i am your father now. *gives love and affection*
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romanticfish234

Same I live with my grandma and sister who extremely homophobic transphobic etc 
            As a trans gay guy as well it’s been hard I’m always open to talk if you want to chat! 
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immental42

Hi I go by Ashton but my parents named me Sadie. I am currently hiding the fact that I’m trans and only a few people know. 
          
          I made a chatroom for anyone who is Trans and interested in having some new friends 

immental42

That’s sad
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Blair_Actually

@littlemonster_blaze oh ok sry I wasn’t on my sister got me and my siblings grounded
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immental42

@WillSolace5 
            Sorry I don’t have any other social media 
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KmelRvrCu

Hi umm my birth name is Kimberly but I prefer to be called Noah. My mom is religious and she accept me bit not fully because of her believe. The problem I have is my sister(well 2 sisters(the oldest doesn't know)) she says that I'm not trans and that I cant be because "I know you since forever and I know that your not" that's what she says, honestly it drives me crazy and rises my depression. Anyone got advice?
          I really love my sister and I don't want to loose her, any of them.

-jamesify_ALT

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@KmelRvrCu okay so i had to convince my little sis that just because i have eyelashes doesn’t mean I’m a girl. And same with my mom she will only call me a boy when i get a sex change. My only advise for you is. Be yourself dude! You are so strong and a lot more braver then what you believe. I had o learn not to give a fuck what others think of my gender but i does still hurts me but i suck it up. Not telling you to do what I’m doing I’m just trying to give you advise. Heh. . Heh. . .
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icythotsksksks

Hey! My name is Ava but I wish it was Alex. I cant come out to my mom because she wants a girl and is highly trans and homophobic. I'm 13 and pan. I dont know what to do. If anyone has advice, please help.

TheoIsARealBoyNow

@AvaChaminoodle Hi... I dont know if I can be of any help but Im kinda going through the same situation... If you ever need to rant or talk or anything along those lines I am here...
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dudldhoo24

Hi! My birth name is Iside but I wish it was Ares, I'm 14, trans FtM, bisexual, I came out to my only friend but we don't talk about it, so she calls me by my birth name and uses she... 
          The only idea to come out to my parents scares me a lot: I think they'll never see me as the same person...
          My family couldn't afford any kind of surgery so it'll be a tough time and i can't see my feet with this damn boobs can anybody please take them? I'd like to talk to people like me, like, a group chat...

dudldhoo24

@ Miss_Norway  no I don't but I can install it now
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FBI_Fish

@dudldhoo24 one of my dearest friends is FtM, so I know a few things about it, I am also bi, do you have amino? I would like to talk to you it's nice meeting new people
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dudldhoo24

@ dudldhoo24  oh and I'm bi but I prefer guys... But I'm not sure about this, I think I'd fall in love with the person and not with the body
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