as you've noticed already I got a crush on that guy.
now.
I would appreciate if you could understand the meaning of every word Im trying to spread. 
every point of view of unique minds are different.
growing as a person takes time.
realizing mistakes helps humanitys growth.
culture, race, religion all have their own traditions and rules.
underestimating others means understanding a portion of yourself.
everyone and anyone is correct in their own way.
each individual is different yet same at the same time.
so if you can love yourself first, it will be easier to love others. 
(meaning when someone is hating others, they hate themselves more) 

I'm not making sense am I ?