"Who are you to judge the life I live? I am not perfect and I don't have to be! Before you start pointing fingers, make sure your hands are clean." -Bob Marley

 Things will get hard and it is perfectly ok to let them weigh on you. I think if we don't let these experiences get to us, then we aren't learning all the lessons.

 And then my soul saw you and it kind of went "Oh there you are. I've been looking for you."