"I understood myself only after I destroyed myself. And only in the process of fixing myself, did I know who I really was. " 

-Sade Andria Sabala

Bitch (noun): 
A woman who won't bang her head against the wall obsessing over someone else's opinion, be it a man or anyone else in her life. 

She understands that if someone does not approve, it's just one person's opinion; therefore it's of no real importance.

She doesn't try to live up to anyone's standards, only her own.