@Luffy_samas_wife just be yourself. Don't follow along with what someone else wants you to be. If there is something you want out of life, go after it. If you want it that bad you will get there. I set a date (this is the new new day, new life, new me) to this day I haven't missed a day in the gym and junk food is now the enemy because I don't want to lose what I worked so hard for. Hope this helps you out and best of luck to you.