secretaccount1301

I just told my mutual on Tik Tok to give me the names of the 'popular' girls in class that say stuff about her as a joke... she send it to me privately

secretaccount1301

Im not strong enough, I just found out today that my friends selfinjure and I kinda had a panic attack (not sure) I thought I was strong enough to deal with this, I knew their mental health isnt good, but I didnt knew that they cutted themselves, I thought I could calm them down, but I cant even calm myself down, I feel a pressure in my chest since they told me, my mum kinda sensed my vibe, Im consedering telling an adult, but I dont wanna lose their friendship, its one of the best ones I have ever had, I know how my parents will react, but I dont know how their parents will react, I feel SO bad, I cant talk to ANYONE about this its their secret, the only person I can talk to about its them, but I it isnt right, to talk to a person about how you feel stressed because they cut themselves, I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO! I feel SO selfish. HELP

slat4kisha

@secretaccount1301  hey loves..
            Yes it isn't right to talk to a person about how you feel stressed because they cut themselves when they are the one whose supposed to be feeling the stress since its actually way harder for them than you...
            
            I think you should just be there for the person...try to control the anxiety you get when u around them as they cut themselves.... stabilize yourself and be there for them...thy need a friend especially at this timings...
            
            I'm sorry you have to go thru all this....n its very nice that you care...your a nice friend❤️
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