over the past few years I learned that picking friends doesn't really mean their your actual friend.  if you ever get mistreated by a close person and they constantly talk bad about others it also means they're talking behind your back too. they are not your real friends if they cause so much pain to others around you & you. unfriend them and find better ones who is kind enough not to bully you or someone else. don't be a bystander or wait for them to change. A decent person would never treat people bad or friend them and then just hurt you afterwards,. because that will happen again & again until they break u. forgive but never forgotten,. just BC you forgive them doesn't mean you have to be their friend its simply telling them that you're done with their act.  so my advice save yourself from a person like that. 💖