(RANT) it annoys me when reading fics where the uke always act selfish, thinking they are the only ones who are hurt when in fact the seme is hurting too. they judge the seme before the latter could explain, refuse to hear any explanation, leave the seme hanging, waiting for a long time... THEN when the seme wanted to give up and leave they are suddenly angry, saying that the seme doesnt really love him. bacot anjir, if the seme doesnt love you then why did he wait for you for a long time although you ignored him?? YOU are the one who should reflect, do you really love the seme??