@wonderlou I don't really know you that well but I know you through my friend tess. I'm truly sorry about your grandpa; my own was in the hospital several times and, even though this may not make you feel better, his body is now 6 feet under yet his soul will live on eternally with God in Heaven. Though I disagree with you on this whole age difference in marriage and gay marriage because it can happen not only in the marriage between a man and a women but also between a man and a man as well as a woman and a woman. Yes love is love but isn't it common for that to happen when money is involved?
