Am i the Jerk for wanting to wear a suit to my brothers wedding and then calling my dad out for forcing me to go with the "Social Norms"?
So my brother is getting married soon and i really wanted to wear a suit to his wedding and he was fine with it, last night i was talking to my parents because my mom said she was gonna take me and my sister dress shopping for it soon and i reminded her that i was gonna wear a suit. She had forgotten so she said we would go shopping for me to get a suit but then my dad said that there is no way im wearing a suit to the wedding. i then mentioned that my brother had already told me that i could and that he was fine with it because if thats what i wanted to wear then i could. then my dad started to yell at me saying that i was arguing when i never once rose my voice. i told him "whatever ill just wear a dress because you are the only one in this house who follows the 'Social Norms' and its stupid." my dad isn't homophobic of any sorts, he supports that im bisexual and genderfluid but he says these things and it makes me second guess it. So, Am I The Jerk for wanting to wear a suit to my brothers wedding and then calling my dad out for forcing me to go with the "Social Norms"?