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hey i’m gonna rant here because i just saw this again and don’t wanna bother everyone with an A/N so yeah. Quick TW for talking about r*pe
STOP GIVING MATTIA A RAPIST MENTALITY. I see so many fics, especially mairi fics for some reason, where Mattia acts and sounds like a FUCKING RAPIST. When Kai, for instance, says “stop” then MATTIA SHOULD STOP. It’s not hot and cute for Mattia to say shit like “you deserve it” or “you were asking for it” in response to that. THAT IS SOMETHING A RAPIST WOULD SAY. Even if the partner actually does want it, continuing when they said stop or slow down is something a fucking rapist would do. No if ands or buts. Not to mention the sheer number of fics in this fandom that glorify abuse and manipulation. Stop making Mattia an asshole to everyone around him. Give him anger issues, that’s what he has irl. Stop making Mattia manipulative. He’s not, and you’re making it seem like it’s an okay thing to do.
And this part is a bit nitpicky- stop making Kai the crybaby when Mattia is? So many people in this fandom think their personalities are so black and white and idk. It’s aggravating.
TLDR; STOP MAKING MATTIA A FUCKING RAPIST