okay so i dont have anywhere else to announce this so i guess ima do it here like the olden days. anyway, if you know me you know i identified as bisexual and/or queer depending on the era. good news!!!! i now feel validated enough to say that im a lesbian!!! ah that feels so freeing and relieving. i love you all and hope youre doing well and i cant even describe how happy i am (besides the intensely nagging imposter syndrome) to call myself a lesbian. like whew i just dropped a whole load off. idk it just feels like me, yknow? so my advice, identify as whatever the hell you want. labels are just estimations and you identifying as something doesnt invalidate it for someone else. if youre like me and youre in that weird gray space, JUST SAY YOURE A LESBIAN IT'S AMAZING AHHHHH GIRLS