I have a game to recommend to you.
Our Life: Beginnings & Always
Short version: Romance Visual novel, free to play, great soundtrack and story, very customizable.
Long version: It is a visual novel about how the main character's (who is customizable) relationship with the main love interest Cove Holden progresses. You can choose to date him, have a crush on him, be friends, or hate him. The soundtrack is super high quality, there is so much game play and the base game is free. There are 4 different DLC's for Cove x MC, 1 DLC for a character named Derek x MC, GBPatch is making a DLC for a character named Baxter x MC, and you can buy the soundtrack of the game. I love it so much. It is my comfort game. Storyline is fun, soundtrack is amazing, art is beautiful, and you can even customize the main love interest to an extent. At the beginning of the game it gives a very detailed explanation of the game. You can fully customize your appearance (it takes me 5 minutes to get through all of the hair options), and choose a name (some of them can be voiced), and pronouns. Sadly you can not choose multiple pronouns.
GBPatch is making a second game with most of this, and even more! You can choose multiple pronouns in this one.
It is called Our Life: Now & Forever. The demo is free, and when the game releases it's gonna be free too. There are two main love interests in this one. Qiu Lin and Tamarack (Always forget her last name).
I love these games with my entire heart, and it says in your bio that you are open to recommendations. I hope it is okay to do this tbh. Anxiety sucks.