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Okay, sorry for the rant in advance
I am a teenager and still in school, and there is this substitute teacher that constantly checks out my breasts and calls me out for everything I do. He has already been reported in the past for going into the girls' locker room and watching the girls undress. Nothing has been done by the administration, so he keeps substituting like nothing ever happened.
What actually piss’s me off is the difference about how my mom handles things. My little brother just got twists and he told everyone that one of his teachers told him that his hair was "unprofessional." That wasn't what happened, he completely made it up. But my mom dropped everything in an instant, went straight to school, and attempted to find out who the teacher was so she could get them fired.
I've told her about the sub making me uneasy. He looks, he touches on purpose like brushing against my hand as he walks by with candy, grazing me as he walks by, or leaning in over my chair like he is doing to find out what I'm doing. She brushes it off. No calls, no emails, no follow through. She tells me I need to harden up and get over it.
The issue is I am socially anxious, I dislike making a scene in person (don’t give a shit calling out people online though), and I am still at a new school. I prefer to rely on friends to speak to people for me, but I can't even get my mom to listen to me.
That's my rant. Seriously, though, how do I get her to listen to me and actually take it seriously?