so, I have this friend right? she's like one of my closest friends but lately she's been making me really uncomfortable..and it's not because I hate or something it's because she keeps on making these 'jokes' about r*pe. like today she said something like 'i hope u get r*ped by [guy from my class who I hate]' as a joke and laughed, I just stared at her and didn't really respond. I'm not comfortable with people making jokes about r*pe especially towards me because no one should joke about something like that, but I don't want to stop being friends with her but at the same time idk what to do to make her stop, I feel like if I tell her to stop the jokes and that they make me uncomfortable she'll get offended thinking i don't want to be friends with her anymore and stop talking to me..